When we hear the word Fear, the connotation is negative. But is it always negative? The Fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, says Proverbs. A healthy dose of fear keeps us safe and sound. If a child did not fear, he would put his hand on the stove and get burned. If a person did not fear drowning, they would jump in without knowing how to swim and drown.
Fear can be healthy with the right amount and the right situation for it. If a woman is not careful at night with a healthy amount of fear for her life and safety, she would walk in a dark parking lot and get hurt. Yes, the parking lot should be safe, but reality bites and parking lots at night are dangerous for women. There are some bad people out there.
In other words, we can substitute the word Fear, if you are so opposed to it, with respect. Respecting God or respecting His authority. Respecting the ocean and its mighty power and waves. Respecting our weaknesses and not badgering ourselves till we break.
Fear and Respect! Nothing wrong with a healthy dose of fear. Just keep it Simple and uncomplicated.