Dear Baba Rumcake,
My husband and I have been trying for 7 months and I’m
so frustrated. It seems EVERYONE is pregnant or has
delivered their infants already, while we are still
trying and absolutely nothing is happening.
We’re both so disappointed and don’t know what to do.
Desperate Wanting to be Mommy
Dear DWTBM,
Jump his bones! That is all there is to this. You are going about this the back ass way. Instead of just having fun you are making this a chore. I am not belittling your efforts or your need to be a mother, I am merely suggesting that couples relax and have fun then they have babies.
The reason some of these women get pregnant when they do not want to, could be because they are sure they will not have kids on birth control so RELAX having fun, then whamo, it happens and they are prego.
Please give it a rest! When you wake up in the morning and he is hard as a rock, as most men are, just do it. Do it anytime, anywhere and all the time for fun not for conception. If you are Catholic, well I am so sorry then, you have to keep thinking of it. If not? Then just have fun and it will happen in time, not your timetable maybe but eventually. Seven months is not a long time.
In the event that you cannot conceive after having fun for a while then you can look for medical assistance. Otherwise, live your life until you get pregnant. You sound tense, relax, enjoy, live your life. You cannot control it so live it.
Blessings on your womb and your daily dose of fun and tumble in bed.
Baba Rumcake