Dear Baba Rumcake,
A new neighbor moved into the apartment above me a couple months ago. A few times now I and other neighbors have been woken up to the sound of him screaming “f**k you!” repeatedly and banging on his walls and floor repeatedly for hours in the middle of the night. There is nobody else in the apartment with him as he freaks.
What can be done about this situation? I am sure the neighbor will go into a rage again and I have a 9-5 job I need to be awake for during the day. Any ideas?
Distressed Neighbor
Dear Distressed,
In truth, a person should be able to scream and yell and swear in their own home without interference from nosy neighbors.
Seems to me that no one has had the guts to go talk to this guy. Everyone is comfortable with calling the cops.
So, why not go to this guy and ask him not to do that. Oh yeah, that requires communication and civility. It is easier to call the cops.
On the other hand you could wear a set of ear plugs. Take responsibility for your own comfort instead of making him do what is best for you.
Either discuss this with the guy or lay off and get on with your own life.
Blessings on gathering your courage,
Baba Rumcake