Dear Baba Rumcake, I was admonished by a man in the tennis courts because my wonderful and very old dog Ruff peed on the net. I apologized for my dog’s mishap but he kept shouting at me. He even suggested I should come back with a towel to clean under the net. I was very [...]
Allowing Dog to Piddle In Tennis Courts
Filed Under: Baba Rumcake, Etiquette, Thoughts, Writing · Tagged: #babarumcake, #etiquette, #social graces
Library Guard Told Me To Be Quiet
Dear Baba Rumcake I was in the library with my son who is mentally challenged. We were doing homework and the woman in the next table kept giving me dirty looks. To top it off, the guard came and told me to keep it down since other people were working. I felt offended. Do you [...]
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Glaring At My Husband
Dear Baba Rumcake, Don’t you love it when people give you dirty looks because, you are, there? My husband, who is very sweet and very kind, to everyone I might add, happened to be standing, waiting to take his seat. This woman, stood before his chair, not paying attention to him at all and she [...]
Filed Under: Friendship, Love & Relations, Thoughts, Writing · Tagged: #babarumcake
Should Feed Fat Partner Fatty Food?
Dear Baba Rumcake, If your bf/gf liked to eat lots of fatty foods and was already a little overweight, would you feed them more of it? Wondering Partner Dear Wondering Partner, Why don’t you leave the eating habits of your partner to them. There is no need for this push to make things for your [...]
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Married Friend Refusing Comaraderie
Dear Baba Rumcake, I know a friend who is newly married and turning into a pretentious asswipe who is losing contact with all his friends. I want to say that when stuff like this happens, the relationship is the one that will usually end–and likely badly. But for now he is I guess going strong [...]
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Could Str8 Man Have Gay Friends
Dear Baba Rumcake, Could a gay man and str8 guy be really good friends w/o the str8 guy being paranoid all the time? Even if the str8 guy is so secure with himself, his GF or buddies won’t be and will eventually wear him down by making him paranoid and badgering him and asking him [...]
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Male Bimbo Lacking Brains Too
Dear Buba Rumcake, I’m in love with a male bimbo. He’s so sweet and good looking… But he’s not the most intellectual person. He also seems very one dimensional. Is that bad? What is wrong with me? Confused in Lust Dear Confused, Nothing wrong with you that a few times in the sack will not [...]
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Never Invites Me to Partys
So I have a ? I have a fiance that never invites me with him to his friends partys he says I wont have fun but how would he know he never ask what do you think? Confused Dear Confused, I refuse to correct your spelling errors, punctuation disasters and all round illiterate writing. You [...]
Filed Under: Baba Rumcake, Thoughts, Writing · Tagged: #babarumcake, Dating, Loneliness
Irresponsible Dad Problem Not Lazy Son
I have been married for many years, and my husband and I live together. His unemployed and (otherwise homeless) adult son lives with us as well. We have 3 young children from our marriage together. His son does not respect ANY of the rules of the house, doesn’t do any chores, doesn’t contribute anything positive [...]
Filed Under: Baba Rumcake, Thoughts, Writing · Tagged: #babarumcake, Attitude, Divorce, Fear, Marriage, Relationships
Inappropriate Behavior Elicits Enthusiasm
Dear Baba Rumcake, They announce your presence to everyone in the room. They say I JUST DROPPED ASS AND YOU’RE ABOUT TO GET HIT IN THE GRILL WITH IT. I will never tire of farting loudly and simultaneously striking any sort of amateur karate stance. However, I’ve recently changed my eating habits and managed to [...]
Filed Under: Baba Rumcake, Etiquette, Love & Relations, Writing · Tagged: #babarumcake, Divorce, Excuses, Relationships
