Dear Baba Rumcake,
I’ve never actually been in on the dating scene. The first love I’ve ever had went to high school with me and we re-met on FB. He was my first everything. How in the world do I get in the dating scene? Because, I just don’t have a clue. Do I post a personals ad or do I walk up to some random guy and say “wanna hang out?” or do I wait for him to come to me?
I don’t go out much because I’m really shy but I am willing to do so, especially if I’m heading out to dance. BUT, I don’t want to go by myself. Should I just go anyway? I don’t have any single friends who would like to go out.
Painfully Shy from Sacramento
You need a life quickly, honey! Get out there and meet the man of your life. People always say that they are shy when they actually mean, I am too special to get hurt.
- Go online and get your face on the net and meet some people.
- Go to church and meet some people there.
- Go on Cragislist and find things to do with groups of people, so you can meet someone who does the things you like.
- Go on Facebook again.
- Go on Match.com
Shall I go on? Get out there and get your heart broken. It will be worth it. You will be truly alive. You cannot go through life worrying about your ego and sensitivity. Get yourself out in the world.
God bless you on your search. Let me know how you do.