Lonely Condom Seeks Valentine

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Valentine’s Day with National Condom Week Is it any surprise that today is not only Valentine’s Day but also National Condom Week? Not to me. I can see the correlation here. Honestly, can’t you see it? Here we are embarking on another V-day where expectations are high and demand is even higher. So, she is [...]

Never Invites Me to Partys

So I have a ? I have a fiance that never invites me with him to his friends partys he says I wont have fun but how would he know he never ask what do you think? Confused Dear Confused, I refuse to correct your spelling errors, punctuation disasters and all round illiterate writing. You [...]

Romance Never Dies Away

Movie Review – The Holiday When you think, at least when I think of Jack Black, I do not think romantic, adorable or cute. I think gross, silly and funny but lovable. But in this movie Jack Black is not only debonaire but charming and wonderful in a most romantic aspect I have ever seen [...]

List Why You Chose Your Partner

When things get tough in your relationship, remember all the things you loved about your partner. Lists, are one of the most important projects you will accomplish in your life. They keep you focused and on task. Use it, to list why you fell in love, why that person was the one. Remember to add [...]

Creep Hates Rejection Obviously

Dear Baba Rumcake, I’m at a bar and someone I’m talking to asks, “So, if I give you my number will you call me?” I responded with a simple smile of flattery and a verbal “No.” He thought I was rude for saying that and told me so. I resisted saying he was rude for [...]

Relationship Sabotage Walk Away

Dear Baba Rumcake, How can you tell when a girl is trying to sabotage a relationship even though she claims she loves you? She flirts with others. Do other guys ever experience this? Annoyed and Confused

BF erased posting on FB

Dear Baba Rumcake, I’ve been dating a guy definitely for about 8 weeks, before we were friends for 8 months. We’ve been sleeping together. Even took me out for Valentine’s Day. Today he posted some funny video on Facebook, and I replied to it. Something sweet, but in no way vulgar or strange. He removed [...]

Cheating How To Know

How to assess: Feeling like something is wrong: trust you intuition. If you think something is wrong, pay attention. Unless of course you are one of those apt to find a problem everywhere. Constant privacy: if they start to need more time “alone” to surf the net or to go out with friends or to [...]

Why Men Seek Youth

I saw this and thought i should post for women to see. Free advice from Baba Rumcake that explains how some men are scumbags. Bad News and the Good News… Sorry if this is harsh but its good (life changing) advice. The bad news is you are right. I am 32 and am not interested [...]

Long Distance Not Hot Enough

This guy is becoming distant…what to do? I met this guy online and he expressed deep interest and how he feels about me. Then the 2nd time we chat, I told him how I feel about him. One thing is every time I chat with him, it goes really well but afterward I am gone [...]