Dear Baba Rumcake,
I’ve been dating a guy definitely for about 8 weeks, before we were friends for 8 months.
We’ve been sleeping together. Even took me out for Valentine’s Day.
Today he posted some funny video on Facebook, and I replied to it. Something sweet, but in no way vulgar or strange. He removed my post. So when I asked him why, he said because it “implies you are my GF”. He has been trying to apologize. What should I do? I am so hurt.
So Hurt it Hurts
Dear So Hurt It Hurts,
When a man or lover is annoyed that you are telling everyone about your relationship, he is playing around.
If you can put up with that, more power to you. But if you do not want to be cheated on and used like a dish rage, move on and get away from this guy.
You should walk away from the lying cheating creep.
Any man in love with a woman likes to show her off, likes everyone to know that he has “a woman”. If not, something is up honey child. Something is up with the flimflam. He is playing the field and wants you to fall into place in the hind seats. So, go ahead and sit in the back of the girlfriends bus, go get abused and neglected.
His apologies don’t mean crap since if he is doing it when you have been dating only 8 weeks, imagine what he will do to you in 8 years.
Blessing on kicking that liar in the teeth by ignoring his pleas,