Dear Baba Rumcake,
i just want someone to trust and love
who trusts me and loves me right back
i want the “us” to be the starting point, from which all the fun and adventure begins
i would love to travel with him, and camp, and listen to music under stars, and cook and renovate and decorate.
but he is married to his demons.
Disheartened in Duluth
Dear Disheartened,
Ummm, time to call in the Exorcist! If that person has demons, RUN! Get away from him, immediately, letting him simmer in his own miserable demonic marriage.
You will get caught up in the nonsense, if you do not get away while you can.
On the other hand, if you decide to stay, there is lots to deal with. To begin with:
- Stay above it all, or his demonic possession will drag you down.
- NEVER, EVER engage in discussions about the ‘demons’.
- Do not advise on the issues.
- If you get married, you will inherit those problems, don’t do it.
Blessings! I hope it all works out for you. Let me know.
Baba Rumcake