When things get tough in your relationship, remember all the things you loved about your partner.
Lists, are one of the most important projects you will accomplish in your life. They keep you focused and on task. Use it, to list why you fell in love, why that person was the one. Remember to add to the list the reasons you were convinced that they would make the perfect mate. Remember how they made you feel, good, elated or special. Any number of safe and solid reasons you decided on that choice.
Know the bad but celebrate the good. Listing is not a push to be stupid. See clearly, since rosy colored glasses will get you nowhere and keep you in the dark.
Go! Do it! Make a list! Share some of it with us. Why did you choose your partner?