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Irresponsible Dad Problem Not Lazy Son

April 18, 2011 by · Leave a Comment

I have been married for many years, and my husband and I live together. His unemployed and (otherwise homeless) adult son lives with us as well. We have 3 young children from our marriage together. His son does not respect ANY of the rules of the house, doesn’t do any chores, doesn’t contribute anything positive [...]

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List Why You Chose Your Partner

March 24, 2011 by · Leave a Comment

When things get tough in your relationship, remember all the things you loved about your partner. Lists, are one of the most important projects you will accomplish in your life. They keep you focused and on task. Use it, to list why you fell in love, why that person was the one. Remember to add [...]

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True Confessions Can Be Destructive

March 15, 2011 by · Leave a Comment
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True Confessions Day Please don’t be stupid and go confessing something that would cause trouble in your marriage or relationships in general. Just because today is True Confessions Day does not mean you should go into work and tell your Boss that you hate them, no matter how much you want to do it. Just [...]

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Why Men Seek Youth

March 6, 2011 by · Leave a Comment

I saw this and thought i should post for women to see. Free advice from Baba Rumcake that explains how some men are scumbags. Bad News and the Good News… Sorry if this is harsh but its good (life changing) advice. The bad news is you are right. I am 32 and am not interested [...]

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Once Adultery Always A Cheat

February 21, 2011 by · Leave a Comment

Dear Baba Rumcake, I have been married for 7 years but I have been having an affair for the past year and he wants me to start leaving my marriage to be with him. My hubby is good to me and I really like them both. In some ways each one of them stands out. [...]

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Marriage Vows Not Always “Till Do Us Part”

February 20, 2011 by · Leave a Comment

Dear Baba Rumcake, When does it stop hurting? Recently separated from my husband and I know he’s not good for me. (Basically our whole marriage was a fraud for my money) I know that in my head, but my heart still hurts so much. How do you get over a man that you promised in [...]

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Gay, Past Life; Are You Serious?

February 9, 2011 by · Leave a Comment

Dear Baba Rumcake, I love my wife and children but occasionally, I like to be with men. Does that mean I was gay in a past life? Tantalized from Cleveland Dear Tantalized, No, I would say, no. You were not gay, in a past life. You are gay, in this life. Are you kidding, pal? [...]

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Do You Have a Significant Jerk?

February 6, 2011 by · Leave a Comment

23 Reasons Why You Might Have a Significant Jerk Below are reasons to dump the jerk in your life. It could be a man or a woman. Don’t be sexist. Just because, it is a jerk, does not mean, just men, it could be a jerk woman; i.e. BITCH. If they do any or a [...]

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The Big D, File or Not File?

February 5, 2011 by · Leave a Comment

Dear Baba Rumcake, Moved out a year ago. I am paralyzed in trying to make a decision to file. I can’t even use the word. What do I do? Indecisive in Independence Dear Indecisive, If you moved out of the schmuck’s house, I assume, he is not worth keeping. You made the first move now [...]

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Gorging in Georgia

January 30, 2011 by · Leave a Comment

Dear Baba Rumcake, I feel ugly and powerless after I ate three slices of pizza, and cried while I did it. I feel gross. Ever since my husband told me he stopped having sex with me because I stopped seeming to care about my body and looks, I’ve only had some good days. Most of [...]

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