Dear Baba Rumcake,
I love my wife and children but occasionally, I like to be with men. Does that mean I was gay in a past life?
Tantalized from Cleveland
No, I would say, no. You were not gay, in a past life. You are gay, in this life.
Are you kidding, pal? I got it, that, you lived your life hiding behind the marriage certificate, bully for you. You have children too, very clever. I imagine, that you think that you are outsmarting everyone who loves you, by having such a great cover. You are not the first nor will you be the last man to do that.
It is interesting that you would want to believe that you were gay in a past life so that you would not admit that you are gay right now, in this life, at this moment. Which makes you an imaginative jughead.
If you continue down that path, it will be alright for a while, I guess, but not for long. Since you are gay, you will make mistakes and will get caught. When your wife finds out, she will probably want to bash your head in. Forewarned is forearmed!
Either stay off the “sauce” or get out, of the proverbial, closet, and live your life the way you want to live it.
So, just to clarify, so that there would be no mistakes about my answer to you, I will explain again.
You are gay. Do not make witless excuses for your needs.
Any man, who wants to be, with another man, is gay. Grow up! Past lives excuse, is for Quixotic dimwits.
Blessings on your past life.