If you could bring one fictional character to life for a day, who would you choose? Jane Eyre was the first person that occurred to me. I want to meet that woman. I want to say hello and shake hands and thank her for the hours of pleasure, joy and rapture that her character brought […]
Dear Baba Rumcake, What would your reaction be if you had an FWB and out of the blue, they told you that they were getting married. You’ve had this FWB for almost a year already. Out of The Blue Dear Out of the Blue, Ummm, Joy?
Dear Baba Rumcake, Tell me, is it really wrong to like someone more when you find out they have money? Assuming you liked them already. Wondering in Wichita Dear Wondering, I suppose being a gold digger and a social climber is not so bad. There should be no reason for remorse about being shallow and […]
Dear Baba Rumcake, I love my wife and children but occasionally, I like to be with men. Does that mean I was gay in a past life? Tantalized from Cleveland Dear Tantalized, No, I would say, no. You were not gay, in a past life. You are gay, in this life. Are you kidding, pal? […]
Dear Baba Rumcake, I just want to be cool. I mean really cool. Like, just look f***ing cool, say cool s**t, have people think I’m cool, to be flat out cool. Style, taste, detached cool vibe… But I’m not. What should I do? UnCool in Utah Dear UnCool, I am not sure what the definition […]
Dear Baba Rumcake, To divorce or not divorce …that is the question. I am at the point where I think a sweet affair would be the momentary lovely balm to the sunburn. I am out here for one special woman… perhaps in a similar circumstance… if only to write about things… first… What do you […]
The one and only time I appeared on stage, was in a Faux Drag Queen, contest. Yep, you heard me. I wanted to do Victor Victoria. For you, young ones, who know nothing of that wonderful movie, it is with Julie Andrews pretending to be a man, pretending to be a woman. A wonderful musical […]
If you can do more than one thing at a time, you are one of the fortunate ones who multi tasks. These people can read, watch television, talk to their children and their spouse while having something cooking on the stove. You get the picture. Most of us, have to set up the scene. A […]