The problem with making a judgment on another is not what it does or how it affects that person. It does not in real life affect them. The judgment however affect the judge on a personal level.
A wrong judgment can bring on a spiraling state of discontent, fear, anger and any slew of other heinous, uncomfortable states.
Since none know the extent of another person’s life, it is difficult to judge them with honest balance. When that happens it opens the door for more conclusions than facts, more judgments than mercy and more mistakes dishonoring the judge.
To make matters worse, the judge will share that point of view with others. Here the situation gets even murkier, uglier and sometimes irreparable.
Judgment should be minimal or not at all but never ever shared. Someone’s reputation may be at stake.
This is God’s way of teaching each of us humility and acceptance with joy. There are those times when we will be The Good Samaritan but those are the easy times. When we are on the receiving end, our true natures are uncovered. Woe to him who has his soul uncovered and does nothing; for hardness of heart will set in and God will not speak of that again.
Does it matter whether you can see the results of your handiwork or not? If the story of Johnny Appleseed is to be believed and let’s just say we do, then everything he did, he walked away from, knowing full well that he would not see the results of his toil.
Be Still and Know that I am God Psalm 46:10