Irresponsible Dad Problem Not Lazy Son

I have been married for many years, and my husband and I live together. His unemployed and (otherwise homeless) adult son lives with us as well. We have 3 young children from our marriage together. His son does not respect ANY of the rules of the house, doesn’t do any chores, doesn’t contribute anything positive [...]

TSA Tyrannical Shameful Acts

TSA Totally Shameful Acts

(T)otally (S)enseless (A)ntics C.S. Lewis said that the worst tyranny comes from the people or persons who claim that the thing they are doing to you, is what you need for your protection and your own good. Our government has deemed it necessary to protect us. In the most nasty humiliating, disgusting and inefficient manner, [...]

If Only Jane Eyre Would Come to Life

If you could bring one fictional character to life for a day, who would you choose? Jane Eyre was the first person that occurred to me. I want to meet that woman. I want to say hello and shake hands and thank her for the hours of pleasure, joy and rapture that her character brought [...]

Cheating How To Know

How to assess: Feeling like something is wrong: trust you intuition. If you think something is wrong, pay attention. Unless of course you are one of those apt to find a problem everywhere. Constant privacy: if they start to need more time “alone” to surf the net or to go out with friends or to [...]

Recognizing God In Your Daily Walk

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Be Still and Know that I am God Psalm 46:10 My Utmost For His Highest In the face of obscurity, in the face of ridicule, in the face of failure hanging onto the word of God will always bring about the victorious life. My biggest fear was never that God would not come through for [...]

Youthful Extremes, Hidden Baggage

Dear Baba Rumcake, When do you think the right time is to reveal your “baggage” when you’re in a new relationship? And is it ever ok to never bring some things up. Do I really have to bring up that period of time, where I was wild? And if so, how long can I wait? [...]

Cockroachs In Dreams Mean Unclean

Dear Baba Rumcake, I had a weird dream about giant cock roaches last night. There were 3 of them in my apartment and I was trying to kill them. But I was also trying to change out of my clothes which were soaking wet and sticking to me for some reason. I wonder what it [...]

In America Official Advocates Live Ammunition Against Protesters

I never interfere in politics but this is ridiculous. Here in America! This is not Egypt or Libya! This is the United States of FREE America. Jeff Cox, Deputy Attorney General of Indiana tweeted advocating that the police should use deadly force against the protesters of Wisconsin. Now, it is really hard to believe that [...]

Probably Canned Look Elsewhere

Dear Baba Rumcake, I’m concerned about my husband. He hasn’t been to work in 3 and a half weeks. He has major job burnout and is depressed. I’m concerned he may lose his job. He hasn’t received a warning slip yet. I worried for him and I’m worried about our finances. Worried About His Job

Are Losers Judging Me?

Dear Rumcake, Sameness is my comfort zone and dare I not step out of my shell. God forbid if I explore new things. I stress when driving and get lost. I hate going to new and unfamiliar places trying to find my way looking or coming across as klutzy or dumb so I won’t take [...]