Dear Baba Rumcake,
What would your reaction be if you had an FWB and out of the blue, they told you that they were getting married. You’ve had this FWB for almost a year already.
Out of The Blue
Dear Out of the Blue,
Sounds like this was agreed upon and you knew the score. By your own admission, you knew that this relationship was strictly Friends With Benefits.
If you imagine for one moment that your ploy to have this FWB relationship so that eventually you could make him fall in love with you, then it backfired.
Sounds like this guy was on the up and up and did not play games with you or offer anything other than the truth, his time for friendship and a warm body to sleep with from time to time.
Again, if you harbored any desires for this guy other than what was agreed upon then you are a fool. Nothing was done to you other than what was agreed upon. Therefore there is nothing but to react with happiness that this person, you claim to be your friend, has finally found someone to actually love and live with for the rest of his life.
If you were not ready for FWB relationship, you should never have embarked on it. Obviously you did not know what you were getting into.
Blessings on taking your head out of the sand,