This guy is becoming distant…what to do?
I met this guy online and he expressed deep interest and how he feels about me. Then the 2nd time we chat, I told him how I feel about him. One thing is every time I chat with him, it goes really well but afterward I am gone like for a week before chat with him again.
Now after 3 chats, I feel he is cooling off. But I am not sure if it is because I told him how I feel so he lost interest. I tried to reconcile with him, and he answers my messages but is always lukewarm with close ended answers.
Anyone tell me what is the reason causing the cool off? Should I go ahead ask straight what is the reason since trying to small chat has failed?
Thanks and your sincere advice is really appreciated!
Cooling Off Freezing Me Off
Dear COFMO,
- This is a long distance chat.
- This has only lasted for three chats
- How can you have feelings for someone after a single chat?
- How hot was he from a long distance after one chat?
- So what if he cools off, you do not even know him.
- If his answers are close ended, he is not interested and keeping you for a lonely night when there is no one else online.
- If you want to ask him, outright, what is stopping you?
Blessings on keeping warm,
Baba Rumcake