Dear Baba Rumcake,
Could a gay man and str8 guy be really good friends w/o the str8 guy being paranoid all the time? Even if the str8 guy is so secure with himself, his GF or buddies won’t be and will eventually wear him down by making him paranoid and badgering him and asking him why he’s friend with a gay man.
I have more str8 buddies than I know gay men and they all eventually become paranoid and leave and I have never had any sexual feelings toward them, they were like my brothers.
Who are you trying to convince that you are straight? Not me, I hope! Sounds like a problem of your own making. We make friends with whoever comes our way without choosing and picking, unless we choose and pick who we go after for friendships.
People will come and go in your life, some Asian, Black, White, Alien, Gay, Women or otherwise. Who cares!? Why do you care who cares who you befriend? Make friends and keep the innuendo out of it. If someone makes a play for you, then get all mouthy and defensive. Otherwise give it a rest.