I saw this and thought i should post for women to see.
Free advice from Baba Rumcake that explains how some men are scumbags.
Bad News and the Good News…
Sorry if this is harsh but its good (life changing) advice.
The bad news is you are right. I am 32 and am not interested in girls my own age anymore. My finance is 23 and all the girls I graduated with look like old maids by comparison. The additional bad news is that shortly (35+), not only your looks but your viability as a mate will start really sliding.
Think of it this way, most guys (and people in general) want children. Its unreasonable to expect you to have children after age 40. As I see it, the math works like this: presuming it takes 1.5 years of courtship to lead to marriage, a year of marriage before pregnancy, than age 35 is the oldest a girl can be a viable life partner:
Courtship: age 35-36
Marriage: age 37
pregnancy 1: age 37-38
pregnancy 2: age 39-40
As a guy, there is absolutely no reason to even consider dating girls over age 35 when you can simply date younger ones. The appeal of my 23 year old GF is now I don’t need to rush a family. If I dated a girl my own age, a clock would be ticking…. What possible incentive does a guy have to strap himself to a biological clock? Especially considering the fact that our generations expected lifespan is projected to be so long, there is every incentive for men to marry younger girls at older ages.
The good news: you are still probably quite attractive. You are not over the hill yet. Furthermore, guys are really not that complicated. Just put on make-up and sit yourself down on a high-end bar stool. Talk only to guys wearing a button-down shirt and non-jeans. Be a good listener and smile. Before you know it, you’ll have the upper hand and your pick of eligible and successful bachelors. PlentyOfFish is also a great resource. Don’t be afraid to send the first email.
Read them and weep! That creep is a first class jerk. But he does have a girlfriend who will age eventually. And, she probably does not know that he is such a schmuck.
Blessings, – Baba Rumcake