Dear Baba Rumcake, The weekend is coming and I am already getting depressed. I have nothing to be depressed about but never sure what to do with the weekend. What should I do? Depressed For No Apparent Reason [Read more…] about Depressed Needs Life Make Over
Archives for 2011
If Only Jane Eyre Would Come to Life
If you could bring one fictional character to life for a day, who would you choose?
Jane Eyre was the first person that occurred to me. I want to meet that woman. I want to say hello and shake hands and thank her for the hours of pleasure, joy and rapture that her character brought me to every time I have read that book. [Read more…] about If Only Jane Eyre Would Come to Life
Old Tramp vs. New Floozy
The idle tramps always felt sure they could get a copper from Seth; they scarcely ever spoke to Adam. Adam Bede by George Eliot.
Reading those words I was mesmerized by the strength of the description. The showing instead of the telling of how forboding Adam’s character and looks were.
I read this to my beloved husband who does not read nor like old English Literature. He looked at me and said, “Poor Adam.”
To which I replied, “Poor Adam? No no. Listen to the words.”
So, I read it again. He nodded in agreement.
“Yes,” he stated, as matter of fact as he always was, “poor Adam must be a dweeb and the tramps don’t to go near him.”
Befuddled, I tried to understand what he was saying. Then it hit me. My dear husband thought that tramps were bad girls, the new fangled word for a woman of ill repute.
After the confusion lifted and my tears stopped rolling down my face, I explained that tramps in this instance were the poor folk who come to the door for food or drink. The confused look remained on his handsome face.
“Homeless people, Honey, you know. Those people who beg for food?”
As understanding dawned on him, he was disgusted with the language not with his misunderstanding.
So there you have it the old vs. the new. What is there to tell? One person’s classic is another person’s trash.
Hit The Snooze Button
Dear Baba Rumcake,
My apartment walls are paper thin and my neighbor sleeps through and/or hits the snooze button from the break of dawn and it’s really getting on my nerves. Sometimes I work throughout the night and need as much sleep as I can in the morning. Sometimes the alarm goes off for hours then randomly hits snooze off and on. I left an anonymous note before but it hasn’t stopped. I wonder if the neighbors on the other side are just as annoyed. Suggestions?
Sleepless in my own home [Read more…] about Hit The Snooze Button
BF erased posting on FB
Dear Baba Rumcake,
I’ve been dating a guy definitely for about 8 weeks, before we were friends for 8 months.
We’ve been sleeping together. Even took me out for Valentine’s Day.
Today he posted some funny video on Facebook, and I replied to it. Something sweet, but in no way vulgar or strange. He removed my post. So when I asked him why, he said because it “implies you are my GF”. He has been trying to apologize. What should I do? I am so hurt.
So Hurt it Hurts [Read more…] about BF erased posting on FB