Dear Baba Rumcake,
Certain people make me feel good, but most make me paranoid that they actually dislike me and are laughing at me or something like that.
How come it is hard to find the ones that just make me feel good?
Paranoid in Peoria [Read more…] about Baba Rumcake, I Want to Feel Good!
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Raging Neighbor Bothers Me!
Dear Baba Rumcake,
A new neighbor moved into the apartment above me a couple months ago. A few times now I and other neighbors have been woken up to the sound of him screaming “f**k you!” repeatedly and banging on his walls and floor repeatedly for hours in the middle of the night. There is nobody else in the apartment with him as he freaks.
What can be done about this situation? I am sure the neighbor will go into a rage again and I have a 9-5 job I need to be awake for during the day. Any ideas?
Distressed Neighbor [Read more…] about Raging Neighbor Bothers Me!
You are an Emotional Moron!
Dear Baba Rumcake,
Do most relationships start out very gradually, like you hang out once a week or less for a while until it gradually increases? Or is it usually a couple of times a week right away?
Anybody have any luck dealing with women?
I call her. She hangs up. I call again. She hangs up.
Why the frack do women play these games?
WndrngY in Warren [Read more…] about You are an Emotional Moron!
Are Losers Judging Me?
Dear Rumcake,
Sameness is my comfort zone and dare I not step out of my shell. God forbid if I explore new things.
I stress when driving and get lost. I hate going to new and unfamiliar places trying to find my way looking or coming across as klutzy or dumb so I won’t take chances.
Do you feel awkward in new place trying to get your bearings, fearing that losers are judging you?
Seeking Solace in Saratoga [Read more…] about Are Losers Judging Me?
Love and Money Equals Happiness?
Dear Baba Rumcake,
Tell me, is it really wrong to like someone more when you find out they have money? Assuming you liked them already.
Wondering in Wichita
Dear Wondering,
I suppose being a gold digger and a social climber is not so bad. There should be no reason for remorse about being shallow and superficial.
You already like the bloke, so there’s no harm in liking him more, for his dough, huh?
After all, money will bring with it comfort and future security. It makes a man seem more desirable since he can take care of you.
It is not so much wrong, as it is immoral. I am not sure that there is a definition to be set to it. Knowing that about yourself, knowing that there was a shift in sentiment over something that materialistic should make you stop and wonder what traits you have that need tweaking and modifying, they need.
I would take a harder look at yourself. A serious look at your trifling sensibilities. Character is what matters in the end. Dig deeper into yourself.
Remaining with him will only make you dependent, weak and less likely to be able to survive on your own, in the future.
The problem with those feelings of liking him more, is, you will overlook serious problems because you see dollar signs in your eyes, ignoring the major issues if they come up.
Blessings on your shaky future,
Baba Rumcake