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Needing Male Boss

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Dear Baba Rumcake,
Male or Female boss, which is better?
I have a GREAT opportunity for a new job that will pay me wayyy better.
I have a phone interview this week. Good thing the hiring manager is male.
Worked for women for years and wow this manager I have @ my current job is very NITPICKY and maybe I’m tired of it. Wondering if I’m going to get this (I’m qualified). Have you had better experience working w/ male or female bosses?
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Long Distance Not Hot Enough

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This guy is becoming distant…what to do?
I met this guy online and he expressed deep interest and how he feels about me. Then the 2nd time we chat, I told him how I feel about him. One thing is every time I chat with him, it goes really well but afterward I am gone like for a week before chat with him again.

Now after 3 chats, I feel he is cooling off. But I am not sure if it is because I told him how I feel so he lost interest. I tried to reconcile with him, and he answers my messages but is always lukewarm with close ended answers.

Anyone tell me what is the reason causing the cool off? Should I go ahead ask straight what is the reason since trying to small chat has failed?
Thanks and your sincere advice is really appreciated!
Cooling Off Freezing Me Off

Dear COFMO,

  • This is a long distance chat.
  • This has only lasted for three chats
  • How can you have feelings for someone after a single chat?
  • How hot was he from a long distance after one chat?
  • So what if he cools off, you do not even know him.
  • If his answers are close ended, he is not interested and keeping you for a lonely night when there is no one else online.
  • If you want to ask him, outright, what is stopping you?

Blessings on keeping warm,
Baba Rumcake

Youthful Extremes, Hidden Baggage

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Dear Baba Rumcake,
When do you think the right time is to reveal your “baggage” when you’re in a new relationship?
And is it ever ok to never bring some things up.
Do I really have to bring up that period of time, where I was wild? And if so, how long can I wait?
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Long Hair Mismatched Shoes Who Cares

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I’m looking at hair styles and this was posted on the website….

“LENGTH: Many women wear long hairstyles because their significant other demands it, or because she is insecure and hides behind her hair. You should wear the hairstyles ‘best’ suited to you, and as long as you are hiding behind your hair, your confidence level can’t increase and will therefor affect your earnings and success in life.”
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