Dear Baba Rumcake,
To divorce or not divorce …that is the question.
I am at the point where I think a sweet affair would be the momentary lovely balm to the sunburn. I am out here for one special woman… perhaps in a similar circumstance… if only to write about things… first…
What do you think?
Tempted in Tampa
Dear Tempted,
You may end up with blood poisoning, after, that “momentary lovely balm to the sunburn”.
You know the old adage from the Baptists, Dancing leads to sex. Well, in this case, writing, leads to meeting; then meeting leads to screwing. Now we are talking, serious involvement.
Be aware, that you might get, what you are looking for out there. Including, but not limited to, horrible diseases and crooks.
If you start another relationship, before trying to fix this one, you will end up in the same rut again. Nothing new there.
Once you allow yourself the possibility of cheating, you will cheat. If losing the woman you are married to, is not a problem, then by all means, go for it. If it is an issue, stay off that course.
Blessings and may the burn reach where you cannot itch.
Baba Rumcake