Dear Baba Rumcake,
I’ve been dating a guy definitely for about 8 weeks, before we were friends for 8 months.
We’ve been sleeping together. Even took me out for Valentine’s Day.
Today he posted some funny video on Facebook, and I replied to it. Something sweet, but in no way vulgar or strange. He removed my post. So when I asked him why, he said because it “implies you are my GF”. He has been trying to apologize. What should I do? I am so hurt.
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Long Distance Not Hot Enough
This guy is becoming distant…what to do?
I met this guy online and he expressed deep interest and how he feels about me. Then the 2nd time we chat, I told him how I feel about him. One thing is every time I chat with him, it goes really well but afterward I am gone like for a week before chat with him again.
Now after 3 chats, I feel he is cooling off. But I am not sure if it is because I told him how I feel so he lost interest. I tried to reconcile with him, and he answers my messages but is always lukewarm with close ended answers.
Anyone tell me what is the reason causing the cool off? Should I go ahead ask straight what is the reason since trying to small chat has failed?
Thanks and your sincere advice is really appreciated!
Cooling Off Freezing Me Off
Dear COFMO,
- This is a long distance chat.
- This has only lasted for three chats
- How can you have feelings for someone after a single chat?
- How hot was he from a long distance after one chat?
- So what if he cools off, you do not even know him.
- If his answers are close ended, he is not interested and keeping you for a lonely night when there is no one else online.
- If you want to ask him, outright, what is stopping you?
Blessings on keeping warm,
Baba Rumcake
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I’m looking at hair styles and this was posted on the website….
“LENGTH: Many women wear long hairstyles because their significant other demands it, or because she is insecure and hides behind her hair. You should wear the hairstyles ‘best’ suited to you, and as long as you are hiding behind your hair, your confidence level can’t increase and will therefor affect your earnings and success in life.”
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Marriage Vows Not Always “Till Do Us Part”
Dear Baba Rumcake,
When does it stop hurting?
Recently separated from my husband and I know he’s not good for me. (Basically our whole marriage was a fraud for my money) I know that in my head, but my heart still hurts so much.
How do you get over a man that you promised in front of your family and God that you would love forever?
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You are an Emotional Moron!
Dear Baba Rumcake,
Do most relationships start out very gradually, like you hang out once a week or less for a while until it gradually increases? Or is it usually a couple of times a week right away?
Anybody have any luck dealing with women?
I call her. She hangs up. I call again. She hangs up.
Why the frack do women play these games?
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