Dear Baba Rumcake,
Tell me, is it really wrong to like someone more when you find out they have money? Assuming you liked them already.
Wondering in Wichita
I suppose being a gold digger and a social climber is not so bad. There should be no reason for remorse about being shallow and superficial.
You already like the bloke, so there’s no harm in liking him more, for his dough, huh?
After all, money will bring with it comfort and future security. It makes a man seem more desirable since he can take care of you.
It is not so much wrong, as it is immoral. I am not sure that there is a definition to be set to it. Knowing that about yourself, knowing that there was a shift in sentiment over something that materialistic should make you stop and wonder what traits you have that need tweaking and modifying, they need.
I would take a harder look at yourself. A serious look at your trifling sensibilities. Character is what matters in the end. Dig deeper into yourself.
Remaining with him will only make you dependent, weak and less likely to be able to survive on your own, in the future.
The problem with those feelings of liking him more, is, you will overlook serious problems because you see dollar signs in your eyes, ignoring the major issues if they come up.
Blessings on your shaky future,